Ah Sara! I'm going on five years in France (in a village in the south) and while we're still in the honeymoon phase, your decision makes total sense. The romance of France is not the reality of living in France. Keep us in the loop about your repatriation. Bises !
Of course we will all miss you but sometimes change and taking that pivot is the way to move through life. I would quote Joseph Campbell but bet you already know the one I am referring to. 😘
Thank you! And I didn't, so Googled and am guessing it's this one: "We must let go of the life we have planned so as to accept the one that's waiting for us." AMEN! x
I can totally relate to this. Paris is my love, my inspiration, and my labor... but the struggle to live there full time, the low level anxiety that comes from being a foreigner (even an extremely privileged one), does take a toll. I decided a long time ago to divide my time between Paris and NYC. I love Paris more when I have a chance to miss it. I feel like I have more perspective on the city now that I'm not fully embedded. And I'm not less of an expert because I don't spend every day of the year there.
You get to decide what's right for you. And whatever happens, what you've learned in Paris won't be lost.
We should start a Low Level Anxiety Club! lol Thanks for reading and relating. In an ideal world, I can make NY-Paris a reality, too. (And while I’m at it, maybe a Fire Island summer share AND one on Le Cap Ferret. A girl can dream!) Hope to see you again someday in either city. We really should share a meal together.
Yes, Sara! C’est vraiment la vie! It’s change and exploration and big swings when we can take them. Your whys make a lot of sense but even if they only made sense to you, they’d still be enough reason. I’m happy for you, and proud of your courage. (And, hard relate on the terrace equation: dirty hair + likely already drunk 😂)
Thank you! Yeah, it took a bit to recognize and make peace with it all, but now I'm feeling good and excited about the next phase. Best part? Paris will be here. :) xx
Yes it will! I’ve been spending a significant chunk of every year in Paris for over a decade (as you know) and still get goosebumps when I arrive into the city. I know this would naturally change if I had made it my home.
That’s for sure. To leave with friends who have become like family means I’ll come back often. And thankfully you’re all more fabulous than me with extra rooms, couches, and country houses. :) How far in advance do I need to “book”? 🤪
Ah Sara! I'm going on five years in France (in a village in the south) and while we're still in the honeymoon phase, your decision makes total sense. The romance of France is not the reality of living in France. Keep us in the loop about your repatriation. Bises !
Thanks so much for reading and relating, Karen! I wish you "courage" on your continued journey in France.
Here’s to change! You took a big leap 10 years ago, and now it’s time for another one. Here’s to whatever it brings!
You knew me when! Thanks so much for following along and supporting the journey. ❤️
Of course we will all miss you but sometimes change and taking that pivot is the way to move through life. I would quote Joseph Campbell but bet you already know the one I am referring to. 😘
Thank you! And I didn't, so Googled and am guessing it's this one: "We must let go of the life we have planned so as to accept the one that's waiting for us." AMEN! x
It is EXACTLY this quote that has helped me make so many pivots in my life. Xx
I can totally relate to this. Paris is my love, my inspiration, and my labor... but the struggle to live there full time, the low level anxiety that comes from being a foreigner (even an extremely privileged one), does take a toll. I decided a long time ago to divide my time between Paris and NYC. I love Paris more when I have a chance to miss it. I feel like I have more perspective on the city now that I'm not fully embedded. And I'm not less of an expert because I don't spend every day of the year there.
You get to decide what's right for you. And whatever happens, what you've learned in Paris won't be lost.
We should start a Low Level Anxiety Club! lol Thanks for reading and relating. In an ideal world, I can make NY-Paris a reality, too. (And while I’m at it, maybe a Fire Island summer share AND one on Le Cap Ferret. A girl can dream!) Hope to see you again someday in either city. We really should share a meal together.
Yes, Sara! C’est vraiment la vie! It’s change and exploration and big swings when we can take them. Your whys make a lot of sense but even if they only made sense to you, they’d still be enough reason. I’m happy for you, and proud of your courage. (And, hard relate on the terrace equation: dirty hair + likely already drunk 😂)
Thank you! Yeah, it took a bit to recognize and make peace with it all, but now I'm feeling good and excited about the next phase. Best part? Paris will be here. :) xx
Yes it will! I’ve been spending a significant chunk of every year in Paris for over a decade (as you know) and still get goosebumps when I arrive into the city. I know this would naturally change if I had made it my home.
This resonated with me deeply. 9 years in France and I have moments where I love it and many others where I wonder, "Is it really worth it?"
Thanks for reading and sharing, Chris! It is indeed, a tricky balance! C’est la France!
I hate this but will love you no matter where you go. But thank goodness for Paris for bringing us together.
That’s for sure. To leave with friends who have become like family means I’ll come back often. And thankfully you’re all more fabulous than me with extra rooms, couches, and country houses. :) How far in advance do I need to “book”? 🤪